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How to flirt online: Three success keys and 10 email questions

What can you say in an email to entice someone to get to coffee talk? You are trying to get to the first date level. So what are the tricks to flirting online?

A 38-year-old female comedian told me, " I don't think it is hard to flirt via email at all. It's like acting. It's very fun to flirt online." Here are some ideas that should help you get to a first date faster.

Three online flirting success keys:

  1. Humor is your ally: A 35-year-old male film editor told me, "It depends on the person. You need to be able to read the person to tell what kind of humor you can get away with. Humor is definitely sexy and so is confidence because girls pick that up."
  2. Keep it simple: Use light-hearted emails with an upbeat tone to attract dates online. A 40-something female painter shared, " Make your responses simple and use easy questions in your emails to flirt." There is no need for long emails either. A 42-year-old accountant told me, "I can tell if I am interested in three or four sentences."
  3. Hand out compliments: One of the best ways to flirt online is to extend a sincere compliment. One guy told me, "I always try to say something subtle, but sincere." You might say to someone who plays the piano, "I think it is awesome that you play piano." He added, "Be sincere and don't throw out phony baloney."

10 email flirting questions

Based on interviews with hundreds of active Polish daters at Loveawake dating site here are 10 questions that can help you ignite sparks online:

  1. Where did you get that fantastic smile?
  2. What is your favorite ice cream flavor and why?
  3. What is the most romantic place that you've been on a date?
  4. What would you do if we got stuck in a snow storm in the mountains?
  5. If you were going to take me out for a romantic evening, what would we do?
  6. What is your favorite thing to do with a partner for fun?
  7. If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
  8. How long have you played guitar? (Ask about something in their profile.)
  9. Wow, is that your cute golden retriever? (Compliment something in their photograph.)
  10. When are we going to meet to find out whether we would ever want to kiss each other? (Depending on the person, you can sound cute using this one)

Have some fun -- use humor and good will. Keep it simple when you're using these email flirting questions. You will have better luck using levity and sincere compliments online.